Wow! This thread has been busy.
Propertymanager, great post on why most people don’t/won’t make it at any business. And it’s right on track, politically correct or not (besides, how many REI’s have you known that didn’t say what they really think?).
A perfect example of the majority is a life-long friend of mine. He has always dreamed of “making it big.” He has actually had several very good ideas and business start-ups that I believed would have made a huge amount of money. In some cases, it’s been proven, as those ideas have been put to market by others.
Why has he not succeeded even to this day?
Two main reasons: Number 1 = FEAR. Fear of failure AND fear of success. People that will/do “make it” don’t let their fears control them, and they are NEVER afraid of success. They desire success.
Number 2 = motivation/desire. People who “make it” have a burning desire to do so. They will put all of their waking (and frequently, sleeping) hours into making success happen. They also don’t depend on others for their motivation. My friend’s biggest setbacks were when he told/showed friends/family his ideas and got responses like, “that’ll never work,” “How do YOU expect to do that,” “You always have some ‘get rich quick’ scheme,” etc. If no one supported him (and they usually don’t), he would become discouraged and quit. To truly be successful, you have to be self-motivating.
jpstephens,
You asked “Will I succeed by my post?”
Here’s your answer. As of right now, I’d have to say no. However, it’s not because of your past posts. PM is right. You’re here asking questions and learning.
Here’s why I’d say no. It’s because you had to ask someone else if they thought you’d succeed. If you don’t know that you’ll success, if you can’t imagine yourself succeeding, if you doubt it, then it’s probably not going to happen. Granted, it was a sucker post. Hey, if someone said that they could tell more or less if another would succeed/fail by their posts, I’d be probably be curious, too.
Just remember the old saying, “Whether you believe that you can or that you can’t, you’re right!”
Raj