Will the lender (countrywide) that I have been negotiating with be at the close? If so how do I do the simul close while they are sitting right there?
You close the SS first, then have the buyer come in after your done is how it works if i am correct.
They usually do find out at the closing table. Not literally though. And they don’t care at that point. It’s a done deal once they’ve accepted the offer. They won’t stop a closing due to a double closing. They pretty much know what’s going on either way.