Wow, that sounds really extreme, Raj!
This man has 4 kids! And makes $10/hr. So yes, go for extra training, figure how to get to $12/hr, then $15/hr but you can’t give up your job.
You can get a 2nd little weekend job and save that money.
Your wife needs to get a job. If the kids are small, do babysitting at home. An extra child or two won’t make much difference and that is found money.
Often there is a demand for drop-off “sick child” care for working moms who must go to work. There should be a premium on this child-care.
Enlist the whole family. I once knew a blind man who assembled radios at minimum wage and whose wife worked as a nurse’s aide. They had 3 kids. They bought a house for $45,000. I was working as a Realtor then and I sold it to them. (This was San Diego, California so they must have made money on that house) It was an old lady’s house, she had gotten too frail and moved in with the daughter. I called the daughter and she was willing to sell it on an “owner carry” contract.
The blind man and his wife came up with $1200 as downpayment. I had the seller pay the other costs. Don’t remember if I got paid or not. Don’t think so, but I got paid in satisfaction of seeing that family become homeowners.
I remember asking my friend the blind man HOW they had managed to
save $1200 when none of my other buyers seemed able to save a nickel. He replied, “We just do without.”
So that’s what you do to buy your first house.
Also, in Michigan there must be some low-cost homes out there as the state is losing population.
You should try to buy a home with a rental unit attached. Then you can get income from the rental. Fix up the homes, sell them or refinance, and get another. Just keep fixing and saving.
Teach your kids how to paint and clean up houses. Make it a family project. This plan won’t jeopordize being able to feed your family. Your family is your riches. This time now, being poor and striving, might end up as your kids’ happiest memory if you enlist them in your plan.
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