How about the LAW!!!
You are the investor who stumbles along and finds Mr. & Mrs. Jones who are missing payments and thier mortgage and either have or have not been served with a posting of a notice of default.
You say “I am an investor and I would like to buy your house! I will put together a Hardship Package and submit it to your First and if applicable your second Trust Deed (Mortgage Lenders)”
You write a contract, put together bank statements, make a copy of Mr. Jones layoff notice, make copies of Mrs. Jones medical bills and submit.
The lender may or may not ask that the property be listed, if when the lenders assessor comes out and appraises the property he finds it to be a fair offer, the lender may not require the property to be listed.
(Only 50% of US properties are VA/FHA and fall under Freddie and Fannie rules)
If the lender requests the property be listed (Guess what they probable did not like your offer) and this falls on the owners Mr. & Mrs. Jones to find a realtor and list the property.
The agent and agency are paid by the seller and the lender, this party has fudiciary and legal responsibility under the law to represent the seller and the lender or lenders. Period.
It is illegal for this agent to look for or find a property buyer at this time for you to sell to! An agent or Broker can not except a listing on a property you do not own!
Your negotiation at this time is a contract offer, there is not verbal contact because you are not an authorized party. Your first contract $100k, second contract $110k, third contract $125k, etc.
That is your only negotiation if the bank asked for the property to be listed, it is all between the sellers, the lenders and the agent and agency.
The second transaction does require a seperate listing agreement after you close a purchase and your the legal owner you are entitled to list your property for sale, it is illegal for a agent, broker and agency to except a listing on a property you do not own! Period!!!
Typically most lenders will not short sale a property for more than 15 or 20% below fair market value. If I have to pay closing costs to buy, service a note for 1 or 2 or 3 months or more and then pay commissions and closing costs to re-sell I am typically not going to make money unless I buy way below FMV (Fair Market Value).
Now when you find a distressed foreclosure that FMV is say $150k and the family who just lost there jobs only owe $123k on thier mortgage this lender will probable except a short sale offer close to 15% below FMV because it costs them 5% to list, they have to maintain and take care of the property.
There are cash on cash costs and the lender has to hold 4 times the amount of the defaulted mortgage in reserve, and has the cost of internally paying someone to manage and handle the re-sale of the property.
The theory you laid out to me above is wrong and if you try to do real estate that way and in any way corupt the process, you will find your self in a state prison somewhere.
Hope you now understand this!