>> It’s just that he feels, I racked the debt up (in my name) therefore I should find a way to deal with it on my own. <<<
This is so common for a husband to make selfish decisions on what is the best thing for HIM.
>> I’ve done so much research & contacted so many legitimate institutions to see if I could get the help I need in order to move on with my life<<
Are you inquiring about borrowing money or what is the law regarding your divorce settlement?
>>>For the last 7 years, all of my paycheque has gone into his account (my name has never been on it) except I get $300.00 per month automatically put into my personal account from my paycheque<<<
This is exactly what I thought…
>> We own a home together (both names are on it), so my cheque helps pay for mortgage, car & some bills.<<
You have assets. Do not sign anything or promise to do anything. Keep silent for now until we work out a plan.
Jackson, I was also naive when I divorced 2 years ago.
I had no credit in my name. Without telling me he actually cut me off the credit cards because he said they were all in HIS name!
He was able to freeze all the bank accounts because they were in HIS name…when I called our stockbroker to ask how much we had at Morgan Stanley, I was told I couldn’t have that information because the ex had power of attorney for all the accounts…even for my own IRA…I was stunned!
I had no income. I had worked for free in our biz 18 hours a day and never received a paycheck. Later I even found out that I was never named as a stockholder in our corporation!
I had been too trusting. First I was hurt, then anger set in once I started educating myself.
Then I was prepared to fight for every dime that was legally mine after 23 years. It was ugly, but I didn’t back down. He had an attorney and I didn’t. I wasn’t going to let an attorney cut into my half!
You have rights and we will find out what they are in Canada.
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There’s more to the story but this isn’t the forum for all of that nonsense<<<[/b]
Yes, I can see there is much more to this story. Contact me in a private message and let’s get to work.
>> It’s actually refreshing & very interesting to see so many people striving & succeeding in their goals<<
You will ALSO be able to survive this and succeed in your new life without him. I guarantee it. I will help you every step of the way. You are not alone. If I could do it, you can too.
Linda