I’ll be the first to admit that I am NOT one of the super uber experts, but since this message has gone “unreplied” for several days I thought I’d offer some advice.
You may be able to get the contract signed via fax or other methods. I know some people flip houses from other states, without ever leaving their home. I don’t know if you have to have a title company, lawyer or notary involved at all, but I would suspect you might.
As for the purchase. You probably have seen the cookie cutter recipie for purchases before
Offer Price = 60% of ARV - Estimate of repairs (and sometimes + your fee if you wanna build in extra profit for yourself.)
I’d recommend taking the lower figure of the ARV $140,000 and start with 60% of that, which is $84,000. Then subtract possible price of repairs. Lets say approximately $15,000, splitting the difference between your $10k and $20k. That gives you a starting point of $69,000.
Not having seen this property though, how are you coming up with that estimate for repairs? If they gave you a quote that they say they got from a contractor, you could be setting yourself up for failure. I recommend getting your own bids. As for that, I also recommend getting your own appraisal, or find someone who can do an “Opinion of Value.” If you have any realtor friends they would be a great person to ask a favor of on this matter.
You should also be prepared for the idea that the property may be hard to move. 4 bed 1 bath is a very odd combo. Of course if you’re assigning it, it would really be up to the cash buyer to make that call. I’d guess they may add a bathroom, but maybe not. I think I would if it were me.
Before I did anything I would look at the property, and have someone knowledgeable estimate the ARV and the repair cost. Or if you’re really itchy, sign up the contract, with a clause letting you out of the deal if the appraisal is surprisingly low, and/or the ARV turns out to be lower than expected.
BTW: the fact that she’s out of state will work to your advantage. I’d certainly push the family (who may be getting tired of showing the house) to advise her that your deal is best for everyone.
I hope I offered some information you haven’t thought of yet.
Best of luck,
Mike