[Sorry for the long post here]
Few motivated sellers (that I want to deal with) ask for proof of funds.
Except that you obviously have not informed this seller that you’re a wholesaler/flipper/rehabber. Why not?
Meantime, this guy thinks he can weed out the tire-kickers this way.
You know how easy POF’s are to manufacture?
Evidently, this guy also believes he’s got options (and time).
So, now I’m suspicious that this isn’t the deal you think it’s cracked up to be.
I could be wrong.
Meantime, if I didn’t want to provide a POF, I might explain to the seller that I was an investor “with several potential partners for this deal (which would make it tough to get a proof of funds letter, since I don’t know which partners will want to finance this deal), and until I can negotiate something with you that is profitable enough for me to present to one of my partner(s), the only thing I’m prepared to do is offer an earnest deposit.”
Or I might say…
"I don’t provide proof of funds letters. Too much of my personal information is revealed on those, and the ones where my personal information is not revealed, defeats the purpose of a POF.
So, since I’m not interested in revealing my personal information to you, I will just buy from a seller that doesn’t need that information. Or would you prefer to negotiate a ‘real deal’ today?"
That might sound a tad snarky, but frankly, the only sellers that would actually need a POF, are banks. In that case, all the other buyers are going to cough up what the bank wants.
But this isn’t a bank.
Frankly, again, I’m hesitant to deal with private sellers who start off with a demand for a proof of funds. It just goes downhill from there. It places me in a position of proving not only the funds, but myself.
I will show them a summary financial statement, if/when that helps me.
So, another answer to this might be to ignore the seller’s POF request altogether; make your offer the way you want; under the terms you’re prepared to buy; and then wait for the seller to make a counter with/without the POF demand.
Now, the seller might be reasonable in asking you to prove funds. However, that’s AFTER you have a bonafide, enforceable contract signed.
I ask, “Why let the seller know you’ve got $4.2M in the bank, just before you try to negotiate a deal?”
Isn’t that stupid?
You want the seller to think, that you’re scraping bottom to come up with the money for your final offer. That only makes sense.
Once you’ve got the offer signed, you pitch it to your buyers list with the stipulation that they fund your earnest/binder deposit, and show POF.
BTW, if you’re gonna assign this deal, then you’ll want your non-refundable assignment fee paid, up front, which should more than cover the earnest deposit, in the event the buyer flakes out. Never mind the bogus POF your buyer supplied you and the seller…! :beer
Hope that helps.