ryguy,
You’ve got a worthy goal, and it’s certainly attainable.
There’s no ‘one way’ to accomplish what you’re after, except that there is one thing that will put you ahead…all things being equal.
That one thing includes three elements:
- Knowing what you want.
- Setting a deadline for when it must happen.
- Giving yourself no alternatives.
Very few people get this.
There’s some good news and some bad news.
The bad news:
The goals that you’ve stated are too vague and dull sounding.
“Retire early” isn’t specific enough. Retire, and then what? Have a stroke and die? Retire early at 64? Or 25? Or when, besides “early?”
Retire with $1M in the bank? Well, think about what a 4% return on that amount gives you. Can you retire on $40K a year?
As an aside, you used the word “filthy rich” in your question.
Subconsciously, you consider being rich as ‘filthy.’ In fact, that term came to your mind, and was the phrase you settled on. That reflects your deep-seated, negative attitude toward wealth.
If you had asked, “How do people become financially independent in real estate?” that would have reflected a much better perspective and mental picture, than getting ‘filthy’ at something.
Words mean everything to us.
OK, before I descend hopelessly into pop-psychology hell, let me just say that you would do yourself a huge favor by reading and internalizing the information from Tony Robbins’ books, “Awaken the Giant Within” and “Unlimited Power.”
They contain powerful information that will help you organize and focus your thoughts (and actions) on achieving the goal(s) you’re after.
Here’s one short cut I took from Tony Robbins that was helpful to me.
Go to a quiet and relaxing place, away from distractions. Give yourself time to write down in as much specific detail as possible, your ideal life, including your character, accomplishments, lifestyle, possessions, activities, relationships, and anything else that comes to mind.
It took one of my friends half a day to do this the first time. Yes, you can do it more than once.
It took me about an hour …Hey, I’m a fast writer, with low vision, and no imagination, what can I say? OK, Just kidding!!!
The good news:
Once you’ve given yourself something to focus on, along with a deadline, and no alternatives, your subconscious mind will start immediately working to help you reach your objectives nearly effortlessly.
BTW, your subconscious mind makes no distinction between fact and fiction. It believes whatever you tell it, or whatever you tell yourself. It’s just a sponge that absorbs whatever you soak it in. However, your subconscious mind affects everything about you, including your outlook, attitudes, intuition, and actions.
So, it’s critically important that you both direct and control your conscious thoughts. That includes expressing verbally, and physically supporting, whatever it is that you want, and telling yourself you already have it.
This is super-performance psychology. It’s not for the timid.
Meanwhile, dream big, be specific, put a deadline on it, give yourself no options, tell yourself you’ve already achieved it …and the “how(s)” will come.